4. Do not indulge: Giving her what she wants, whenever she wants, can lead to unrealistic expectations in life. Postponing some of her wishes for a while will both give her more value to what she wants, and help her to be patient and learn that everything she wants cannot happen instantly. 5. Show your love with their language: Children perceive love in different ways. Make it clear to them often or express it. It is very important for them to understand that they are loved and valued, to develop and to have a quality life in the future.